I have been kinda keeping to myself lately. I have been getting too involved in the life of my BFF. So, this week I have been practicing ‘detachment’ . Its a codependant term that basicly mean taking oneself away from the problem and letting it, or him in this case, work it out for himself. He does not need me to keep pestering him, he’s a big boy and can do it all alone. I have been quietly working on How NOT to Relapse After Rehabilitation from my codependant ways. I hope he understands as I have not talked to him for about 4 days. *sigh*
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It is hard not to want to help when the real help is letting them figure it out. It sure is hard to sit back and watch.
Hey, I tagged you. http://www.chatbugkaren.com/windingthreads/2008/01/11/archive-meme/
Hi Karen, thanks for the support. I always want to help people, but I am getting better at leaving them figure it out by themselves. Thanks for the tag, I will check in out right now !
I am proud of you for recoginizing it was happening. That is a huge step!
Thanks Leigh. Sometimes I cant see these things, but every day is a learing experience!